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Learn to Love Taking Notes!

27 Apr

Hi all. I’ve decided to try a different tack on posting my articles. I will still put the link for the article at the end of this post, but whenever possible, I’d prefer to let you see the full text here. Henceforth you don’t necessarily have to click on the link unless I’m publishing in a magazine that requires it. And if you hit a paywall when that happens, I apologize in advance for that, but the magazines I hope to be published in always want subscribers. Please be patient as we figure this out together.

That said, I encourage you to click on the link to check out Voices! I’ve been in Toastmasters for nearly a decade, and even though I’ll continue to post my articles here, there’s plenty more to see in the magazine. For those of you who might be interested in joining Toastmasters, Voices! gives a lot of advice on public speaking and leadership. Please check it out when you can. This current article can be found on Pages 40-41 of Voices!

Now, on to the article itself!

What happens when you need to create a specific speech, but you can’t clarify all the points you want to make?

Taking notes used to be one of those tasks that I dreaded. I remember when I first learned to take notes back in grade school. At the time, I found it helpful, but only slightly. When your self-esteem isn’t that great to begin with and you’re taking classes like Social Studies where you feel profoundly stupid, the notes only served as a reminder that I had a lot more to learn. Flash forward to my adult years, and I was often asked to take notes for different organizations. Perhaps my least favorite time for note taking also became my most transformative experience for learning how to take notes correctly. From 2013 to 2015, I served on the Talent Committee at the Oregon Media Production Association where we tried to create policy and events that would help actors and other talent excel at their craft. During my first year, I was asked to take notes during our meetings. Not knowing how much information to take down, I ended up recording almost every aspect of the meeting. I was gently taught by a couple of people to summarize the different parts of the meeting by delineating the main points of each subject we covered. Gradually synopsizing the meeting became much easier, though by the time my tenure ended as secretary of our group, I truly hated note taking.

Perhaps not so surprisingly, during my time in Toastmasters, my attitude gradually changed to where I did almost a completely U-turn on taking notes. In two of my clubs, we have the meeting role of the Master Listener. Simply put, the Master Listener listens to the bulk of the meeting, takes notes on each of the speakers, and then gives a pop quiz to the rest of the club near the end of the meeting. One of the benefits of the Master Listener role is that it’s one of the easiest meeting roles to learn for newer members. However, it also provides an interesting challenge as the Master Listener also practices better active listening skills in picking up the various details of the meeting before creating questions for the rest of the club to answer. And as a better active listener, you’re more likely to catch details in the speeches you might have missed otherwise that might prove invaluable to you later as a speaker. As the Master Listener, I used the skills picked up from my time as the committee secretary, took meticulous notes, and enjoyed stumping our members and guests by giving very specific questions related to our meeting. I learned just as much from the experience as they did.

Perhaps the best time for me to take notes is when I’m brainstorming. I love brainstorming, and as someone who writes in multiple genres, brainstorming is a must in most situations to help clarify what it is you want to write. Unlike other forms of note taking, brainstorming is much more freeform, allowing greater flexibility but also eventually needing a way to organize one’s thoughts into a coherent story once you’ve hashed out the details. For example, world-building is one of my favorite activities as a writer of science fiction and fantasy as so many elements go into creating a milieu that is exciting to both the reader and the author. The main drawback in world-building is that you can become lost in your own creation and forget to write the story itself. Brainstorming should ultimately be about creating the environment you want for your speech or essay. I learned that If you’re spending too much time brainstorming, you’re probably overthinking what you want to do on your project. By taking the time to create the main points of my story or speech, I was able to flesh out my goals much more succinctly.

While I can’t always tell you that there are ways to enjoy note taking, certainly there are many benefits to using this skill. As our Club Secretary, for example, I’m able to take part in the direction of my club by recording the events of our executive committee meetings. And that’s perhaps the biggest takeaway. By taking notes for yourself, you ensure that you retain information for a longer period of time so you can improve your skillsets, whether that be as a student or an employee. By taking notes for others, you ensure that the group remains on track and accountable for their actions. And by using note taking as a means to create a speech, you make it possible to keep the speech on-topic by creating bullet points for your subject matter, making it easier for your audience to follow along.

Voices! March 2023

Unique Qualities to Unique Situations

29 Mar

A friend of mine recently asked me the question, “Where are you uniquely suited to offer the most value to others?”

Although I don’t like harping on my facial paralysis too often, I was recently thinking about how I could use my disability to my advantage as an actor. This way of thinking has not always come easily to me. Years earlier, just after I was signed to my talent agency, I was trying to think of ways to avoid having to use my disability, believing that it would be a crutch in finding employment. Actors with disabilities still find very little work in show business, and I was determined to show casting directors that I was more than my disability. However, when you go out for auditions, the casting directors will use what they see, and you only have two minutes (at best!) to showcase what you have to offer. In recent years, there have been more opportunities for actors with disabilities to be seen and heard, and I finally decided to work on finding ways to use my facial paralysis to my advantage.

One of the things that I’ve been wondering about is what it would be like to work in motion capture. In motion capture, sensors are attached to the face and body in order to record the actor’s movements and facial expressions to be used later in animating or enhancing specific characters. An argument could certainly be made that I’d be a poor choice for this performance technology, but then again, no one has ever tried to capture my expression in such a way, either. What would it be like for the technicians working with me if they found that a person with my facial paralysis actually had more going for me than they thought, especially given my many years of performance experience? The idea I’m playing around with is putting together an article called, “What Can You Learn from a Facial Paralysis?” At the very least, I can offer insights into different disabilities. At most, I might be called upon as a disability consultant in show business, though for various reasons that I won’t go into, that situation is fraught with peril, especially since many people with disabilities don’t get properly paid for their services in the industry.

Our Next Concert Is…

22 Mar

I’m pleased to announce that the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus will be performing our next concert, “The Body Electric,” on March 25-26 at the Patricia Center for the Performing Arts in Beaverton, Oregon. Saturday’s concert will begin at 8 p.m., while our Sunday matinee starts at 3 p.m. A full description of the event appears below, and you can get your tickets here: https://thereser.org/event/the-body-electric/

The Body Electric

March 25-26

We, the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus, loudly proclaim that all people have the right to lead lives of freedom, peace, and joy. In these tumultuous times, The Body Electric honors our communities’ never-ending crusade against oppression, the pursuit of a more perfect union, and the inalienable power found within each of us. Join us as we raise our voices in celebration of all that we are and all that we hope to be.

“BE ADVISED: Laser and/or strobe lights are used throughout this performance. Audience members with photosensitivity or a history of seizures/epilepsy may consider caution.”

Say What You Mean!

1 Mar

Hi folks. In my latest installment in Voices, I talk candidly about how euphemisms, slang, and expletives can cause confusion for your audience. As public speakers, it’s always better to strive for clarity and never assuming what the audience might or might not know. Tomorrow I’ll talk a bit more about my favorite euphemisms and why they can cause more harm than good. You can find my article on Pages 38-39 of Voices! Enjoy!

https://d7toastmasters.org/project/voices-february-2023/

New Beginnings

27 Feb

I’ve been working very hard over the past several years to work on my writing with an eye toward publication in a number of different periodicals as well as creating books and screenplays. Writing has always been my true calling, but up until recently, I’ve felt like I had to please other people or work in “mainstream” jobs in order to make ends meet. To some extent, the latter is still true. I’m job hunting for work in several areas, and I plan to be employed again by the middle of March. However, the primary goal is to make a living as a writer, and so I decided to make a promise to myself to write five hundred words a day, minimum. That starts right here with this blog.

The main goal is simple: Write five or more posts a week, Monday through Friday, and preferably as early as possible in the morning. I plan on covering a variety of topics, but the idea is simply to create a habit of writing every weekday. I reserve the right to have weekends off if I need them, but if all goes well, I may find myself writing seven days a week, which is just fine with me.

Some of you might be wondering why this is so important to me. In a nutshell, writing is the first thing I want to do every day I get up in the morning. The desire to write follows me throughout the day by reminding me of stories yet untold that I’ve recorded in my journal. At the gym I might skip socializing in the swimming pool during water aerobics because I’ve had an idea for a screenplay that needs retooling. And at bedtime I’m thinking about superheroes and the various ramifications of having superpowers. In summary, writing matters, and it’s the one form of employment I feel most qualified at doing, despite having over twenty years of experience in medical and general transcription.

It should be noted that the five hundred words I write a day might not all be in the blog but rather spread out throughout the day in various projects. In addition to writing essays, fiction, and screenplays, I also enjoy writing on a website called Quora. You can find me on there answering questions and maybe posting a few of my own. I look forward to hearing your responses to my writing should you choose to leave comments, and you can also hold me accountable if I don’t make a posting on a given weekday. See you soon.

Facing My Fear of Failure

3 Feb

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

I’ve known since the age of four years old that I was meant to be a writer. When
my brother and I were much younger, we both loved to listen to our mother read to us.
Eventually I told her that I wanted to start telling my own stories. She would
write down what I said, and I would get very upset when she wouldn’t put the
right words on the page. Later on, our mother would create “books” for me by
stapling together a few sheets of typing paper, and I would begin writing my
thoughts and stories down. (Yes, this was long before the age of personal
computers, and it wasn’t until high school that I would take typing classes,
which to this day I have never once regretted doing.)

The thing that was so unusual about my writing, especially according to
my parents, was that the punctuation and spelling were perfect. No one knew how
I was doing this at such a young age, and it was a strong indicator that
despite my facial paralysis, I wasn’t at all intellectually impaired, despite
what doctors had told my parents several years earlier. My uncanny facility with
language led to me being placed in the talented and gifted program at school,
which is one of the few places I thrived in for quite some time.

The thing is, I’d dealt with a lot of people underestimating me, especially
during my younger years. This impacted how I saw myself, of course, but worse
than that, it meant that I couldn’t trust my own voice. Even though I had the
support of teachers and others who could see my potential as a writer, it took
me many years to realize that I had something of value to say. Thankfully, in
the past few years through a number of different circumstances, I realized that
I wasn’t living the life I most wanted and began to write again. My blog in
particular is an ongoing project that is meant to be the centerpiece of a
number of activities including acting, singing, public speaking, and of course
the writing itself.

Writing is its own act of defiance and helps me face my fear of failure. Each day I
sit down to write is a day of repudiating that fear and making sure I don’t
give in to doubt or insecurity. Some days I may simply not know what to write.
On other days, several projects may clamor for my attention all at once. Sometimes
I’ll go onto Quora, a website where people pose questions and get answers to
them, and jot down my own responses to various inquiries. The point is to keep
writing and eventually find my own voice, regardless of what my insecurities
might be trying to tell me.

 

 

It’s Complicated

2 Feb

I’ve been a member of the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus for over 30 years, joining in 1992 straight out of college. I’ve also been privileged to be a member of our subgroup, Cascade, several times over the years. Cascade is a smaller ensemble of singers who perform both at our regular concerts as well at for outreach events. Cascade will be performing their next concert at the Alberta Abbey, 126 Northeast Alberta Street, Portland, OR, 97211 on February 11 from 8-10 p.m. The description of the concert as well as our website information are below. I hope you can make it.

From the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus website:

“Let’s face it – sometimes Cupid’s arrow misses its mark or strikes the wrong target, love’s rosy path hits a bramble patch, or the planets simply fail to align. Taking a chance on romance can feel like a fool’s errand, but we plunge in headfirst anyway. Come fall in love with Cascade all over again as we explore the many moods of this thing called love.”

Tickets can be purchased at the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus website: https://www.pdxgmc.org/concerts-tickets/

From Impossible to Possible

1 Feb

Hi folks. In my latest piece, “From Impossible to Possible,” I talk about defining an impossible goal and why it’s important to keep striving for success even when the end result seems far from attainable. The article is on Page 36-37. Enjoy!

Voices! January 2023

Remembering Nichelle Nichols

28 Dec

Star Trek has been a major part of my life since I was a child. From an early age, I would watch The Original Series as often as I could. While I still consider Spock to be perhaps the most iconic figure in Star Trek’s history, it was Lt. Uhura who was the franchise’s heart. Long before I could understand the historical significance of Nichelle’s role, I was delighted to see a strong woman on the bridge. In fact, I always wondered why Lt. Uhura wasn’t given more to do, not understanding that strong female characters at that time were in fact a rarity, let alone a woman of color who could serve equally with the men. Nichelle truly was the First in many ways, both in her role as Lt. Uhura and her contributions in helping women and people of color secure more influential positions in scientific fields and other industries.

Rest in peace, Nichelle. You kept the hailing frequencies open for everyone.

The Importance of Being Thankful

19 Dec

It’s never too early to count your blessings. In my latest post to Voices Magazine, I talk about the reasons we should be grateful for what we have. The article can be found on Pages 34-35 of Voices. Enjoy!

https://d7toastmasters.org/project/voices-november-2022/